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In this blog, I intend to post about topics like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

♥︎ psychology
♥︎ kink
♥︎ sex work
♥︎ crime
♥︎ anarchism
♥︎ mythical foxes
♥︎ and my inner world.

I don’t expect anyone to actually read it. I’m mostly posting to keep track of the changes I make to my work. But… If you’re here, hello. 𖹭

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The Framework:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m working on a framework to model how agency expands or collapses under different conditions. I treat agency as a dynamical system, shaped by safety, threat, trust, and repair, and I’m trying to formalize those processes into math.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We tend to talk about these things emotionally or morally. I’m interested in what changes when we make the structure explicit. I’m especially interested in where well-intentioned systems fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If non-punitive alternatives are going to exist at scale — collaborative accountability<\/a> centers, repair commons, or other forms of post-carceral infrastructure — they have to show progress in a language that current institutions take seriously. Right now, that language is metrics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My goal isn’t to flatten care into numbers, but to make care legible in a world that increasingly demands quantification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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If you want to start reading:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

♥︎ On shame and criminalization<\/mark><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

♥︎ Graeber, domination, and why I’m formalizing<\/mark><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

♥︎ Working Log v0.3: asymmetry, hysteresis<\/a>, repair<\/mark><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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But… If you’re here, hello. 𖹭 ✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩‧₊˚─────⋆⋅☆⋅⋆─────˚₊‧✩ The Framework: I’m […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":427,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"yoast_head":"\nOrientation - A Fox's Sky<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/aeris.baby\/?p=1\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Orientation - A Fox's Sky\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"In this blog, I intend to post about topics like: ♥︎ psychology♥︎ kink♥︎ sex work♥︎ crime♥︎ anarchism♥︎ mythical foxes♥︎ and my inner world. 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